[Espy]

ohgawd, I've played on several servers. I wouldn't suggest you play HR (high rate) and SHR(super high rate) before low/midrate; you're screwed if you get used to owning.

ratemyserver.net

I used to play on AnimusRO. That's a decent server to start on. Then I switched to GarmRO (nonexistant now), and aRO felt really really slow, haha....

Recently I've only played on Reflex-RO, but besides Animus, LuminaRO is a nice place to start, especially midrate. I can help you two with stuff if you need it there.