[CupcakeDolly]

From what I understand, this girl and her mother come as a package. If you want one gone, then the other one will go too. Otherwise they both stay, and honestly it doesn't sound like either one is making you happy. This girl doesn't seem to feel anything for you, and probably wouldn't be extending the same courtesy in dealing with troublesome family members as you are for her.

When you say that she's THE ONE... Really? There are billions of people out there. If you'd open your eyes and take a look at a few of them, you might realize that some of them aren't so bad either. Yeah, it's hard to pull yourself away from someone you idolize, but that's all she really is at this point - an idol. It doesn't seem like she's interested in being much more than that.

I think more people here would be willing to validate your anger if they didn't want you to actually do what you so obviously need to in order to be happier. Give your roommate - as that's ALL she wants to be for you - the ultimatum. Tell her you want her mother out, or you're out. If she chooses her mother over you, you should really consider the possibility that she isn't a good person to be associating with. The situation you've put yourself in is not healthy.