[Serra Britt]

I don't think you want to hear my "sage advice" but the best solution would be if neither of you wanted to do it...

It's good that they are not trying to push it on you, but it is a shame that they keep offering to your boyfriend since really...it sounds like he's been a big help in keeping you from breaking your probation. With the temptation right there, as well as an opportunity to do so without you being there...well, I expect him to buckle (sorry!) The solution probably isn't ideal but it might be best with everything else that's been presented. You know, you can always bug me on MSN anytime too if you need a distraction :p