[Sei]

Well, that's another stereotype that gay men have been 'blessed' with: the need to forgo a relationship and just have sex whenever they can (one-night-stands and such). Honestly, you're just as likely to have the same temptations when you're not gay; it's just 'easier' for heterosexuals (especially) to get into a relationship because it's accepted. Sometimes, due to societal constraints, hooking up just makes more sense.

However, there are guys out there that want more than just sex, though it takes a while to find them. Usually... when you get guys that are in their twenties, you tend to find those ready for more than just hook-ups (though it depends on the guy ultimately). I don't know exactly how old you are, but I didn't find mine until freshman year of college when I was eighteen.