[CupcakeDolly]

Everyone will probably tell you to be nice or to give second chances, but come on... some people just literally suck all of the life from you. There are people who give out energy, and there are those who feed from it like leeches. Unless there's an equal amount of give and take between two friends, it might be better to just cut them off completely.

Granted, after being given time to grow and mature and learn from life, perhaps she might have changed somewhat. Another possibility is that she may have realized that nobody else gave her as much of their attention and energy as you used to, and she may think that going back to you will be an easy way for her to have more of the same.

Whatever you think of it, if you plan to entertain the possibility of talking to her again, my advice would be for you to scope out her intentions. Maybe ask her directly what she wants, and see her reaction to it. That might give you an idea of what to do.