[gremlin]

Just seems like he's trying to make you feel lesser than your sister. He probably even wants her to outshine you. Which is pretty fucked up for a father to do. You should love your child for who they are and accept whatever they choose to do in their life. Not make a plan for them and once they turn down another road remind them of what you wanted constantly... guilt-trip them. That really pisses me off.

Next time say "I could have played, but I didn't want to. Do you even know what I'm good at? Do you want to know?" say it in front of his friends as well, co-workers, whoever. It will embarrass the shit out of him and he will probably try to play it cool or he will shut up.