[MuseSick]

The truth is; is that no matter his intentions, weather he's doing it on purpose, or doesn't realize it. Chances are, even if you call him out on it he'll do it again. It's not my place to tell you if you should leave him or not, that's entirely your choice, because it's your life. No one on here, no matter what they say, is going to be your yes or no. When people give you feedback, yes listen, but don't make it or brake it. Because this isn't about us it's about you. It's startling how many people read someone's opinion and instantly decide they've got the best one. But this isn't the point. My point is, is that yeah people say love is pain, but you shouldn't wake up every god damn day dreding a phone call from the boy's Mum, or hating that you want him to get on, but when he's finally there you wish you could take it all back and go back to bed. Go back to the moment in the day where you could completely change your mind about wanting him.

I can tell you what I'd do personally; and it's not easy. But I'd up and leave because love doesn't hurt that much. Yes- lovers do little things that hurt, but at some point there is a feeling of relief, that you've worked something out and it's behind you. Consistently bringing up the same issues over and over, without fixing them- it's not love. It's work. Love should never be considered like going to work. People should never think that work and love are something of equal value, unless you love your job to bits. Like I said it's not my place to say what you should do.

But is he really worth it? Really worth turning around and feeling like shit everyday? Worth the risk of his Mum making up some bullshit to the cops because you're different? At the end of the day all you can ask yourself is if it's really what you want. If it's worth it.

My personal beliefs on love are that there is always someone better out there, falling is love is based on getting sick of looking, and stumbling upon someone better than your ex. You've got to ask yourself if he's worth it, because I'm sure you could go on without him.

If you choose to go on through life without him, my best suggestion is to "quit cold turkey" block him, delete him, get your phone company to block his number from your phone, ect. Because it's not healthy for you to wake up every day and go back to bed thinking you've never had a worse day in your entire life.

Chances are if you feel abused you are abused.

Don't be the child who was afraid to call children's aid,
Or the girl who never left the abusive boyfriend because she was scared.
Or the man who wouldn't divorce his wife because he thought she'd take away his kids.

You don't need him, and chances are you'd be better off without him.

I hope this helps you in some way shape or, well just generally any way.
Feel free to PM me if you want, or anything really.
I like to help.