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MuseSick
Mercury Poisoning!
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As hard as it probably is to admit, maybe you weren't as close as you imagined. You can never know what someone's thinking about you- Unless you ask them. Even then they can lie. I think maybe she wasn't a very good friend (just off what you're saying) because if she was don't you think she'd be a little open minded in believing you? She wouldn't let her Mum jump on your back for something that is out of your control if you were really great friends. This isn't the point of the topic but- what's said and done can't be taken back. You could beg your Dad and plead for him to give her back the car, but it's wrong. It's his job, I hate to say it but it's HER fault that her car got taken away. You shouldn't feel so guilty for something that's completely out of your control. I know it's hard because you were giddy about her coming back, and you were close. But- time changes people, maybe she's not the same friend you thought she was.
As for her Mum, you can always get her number blocked so she can no longer call you. But it's strange- Why wouldn't you just ask your Dad for her address, and go see her, and apologize. (Maybe you already have) but when you think of it, apologies in words are only as convincing as the person reading it. If her mind doesn't want to believe it, she wont. So try going over, talking to her, you can tell a lot about the meaning of a conversation through someone's eyes.
If she's a good friend, she'll come to her own realization. Sometimes less is more. And it's true. Let it sit, simmer, whatever you want to call it. But you shouldn't feel so awful- for something that isn't your fault. If anything- if I were you I'd be more pissed than I would be sad.
There are bigger things out there.
"Everyone else is either asleep or having sex. I've been watching cable television and eating jello."
-The Perks of Being a Wallflower
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Posted 07-28-2011, 12:54 PM
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