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Originally Posted by Yuki
Why the fuck would you "try" being in an abusive relationship? >_> If I had a boyfriend who even hit me even once I'd punch him back never to see him again, ever. He could go kill himself.
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Because abusers hide it, they act all sweet and nice, until you're hooked in..
My ex was like that and was pretty much staying with me by the time I found out how eh was...
My grandparents were gone (one in hospital, other at a friend's from mental breakdown) and it was their house, but he took it over and I knew he could come back and hurt me if I tried to kick him out.
He stole from my grandparents, he hurt me, physically and emotionally... Made me feel selfish if I used my own money on myself... got me to spend my birthday money on his wishes.. :C
And when I pissed him off enough, he had a guy he'd met and become semi-friends with (and had boozed up and had booze in him himself), he had the guy rape me, which was when I finally had my breaking point, and ran away to live with someone else out of a van.
(Only way I felt I could be safe) Of course, that's another can of worms.. but I eventually got back home, where I am safe.