[SanguaLuna]

Just be friends... No harm in that. He sounds like he is honest and that is good. I know many guy friends of mine are like that. One in particular is like that and it is because I am not exactly what he is looking for, even though he did state that I am perfect in so many ways. It happens to be that I have a child, I am older then he is use to, I am an Atheist (even though that does not bother him that much) and a few other things. But I am generally only girl who likes him more then any other currently. Most girls he goes after are catty, flirty but never interested in him. They usually say he is too nice or too fat for them. :/

He always ends up thinking of dating me or even having a relationship, saying he feels dumb for not going for it (even though we tried). I essentially view him as a friend and never will think of him as a boyfriend until the time comes. That is your best bet. It is best to see how he goes with it and being friends can have its rewards.