SanguaLuna
CHEEZBURGER?!
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I am a mature woman with a child, though I do enjoy "childish" things, I try to have a mature out look on life and as well as guys. I made horrible decisions in the past that I don't want to do now. So, I been talking to a few potential boyfriends and one sounds perfect for me. He does not mind that I have a kid, has a decent job and understands my situation. He is also pretty kinky in bed and I like that. Anyway, he is not ready for a relationship and that is good because I want to wait for the right moment. The only flaw is he is in AA but he is not a hard alcoholic or well, from my understanding he is not. He was a social drinker but he is almost a year sober and this is first time ever in AA, so he never really relapsed and even so, from my understanding he is not an angry drunk or even drinks that often. I guess people around him claimed him to be an alcoholic or he felt better going, I don't know but it does not seem to effect him in a negative way. Though AA sounds like a cult from what he tells me, but that is an entirely different story.
Anyway, he kind of never tells me the full truth. I told him I am an open girl and not afraid if he is seeing other girls. I am not a jealous type person, just be honest and I am happy. It took me a few months to tell me he is seeing two other girls. No biggie... He has to look around too and it is not like we are in a relationship. He thought it was odd I was not angered by it, lol... I guess so many girls tell him it is okay and then get jealous.
My issue is he claims he likes me and goes onto how he wants a relationship with me, but then he backs up and says he is not sure. He is kind of playing games and I am not even sure if it is worth my time. In the long run he is not bad but he sounds confused. Should I give it a chance and see how it goes or should I call it off before it even starts?
"Art washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life."
-Pablo Picasso
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Posted 06-28-2011, 10:04 PM
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