[Serra Britt]

I have to admit, it's a lot easier for someone who's not shy to state their feelings to jump into a conversation and keep talking even if it feels like they are being ignored. I know I pushed my way into several of the clubhouses and just started talking.. at first I didn't care if anyone paid attention to me because I still felt like I was participating. Eventually after a few days people were used to seeing me there and started to talk back to me, either that or I was just saying the right stuff.

I really don't think you should worry about being judged here. I mean, I'm a transgirl and no one gives me any problems about it. I think most of Trisphee is a very caring community and would be happy to hear what you have to say even if they don't fully agree with everything.

I know it's probably hard but.. maybe you can just try to find someplace (follow me in if it helps) and start posting. Make yourself heard. Reply to people even if they don't reply to you. I know it's hard for you Joey but I'll do what I can to help... if you want me to that is.