[CupcakeDolly]

Yeah, it doesn't sound like she's really been there for you. Her behavior isn't even on par with what a good friend should be - an acquaintance, maybe, but not friend who truly cares for you. Not to mention that ten years is a long time, and you guys probably changed a lot during that time. I would suggest letting things go as they are, and if you really feel that she needs to know what you're thinking then let her know. She doesn't sound like the kind of person who would hear you out, but some things need to be said regardless. Other than that, there's not much you can do except keep on going in life.