[Serra Britt]

When I was in college, I met two people (who later married each other) that I adored quite a lot and was really good friends with them. We spent a lot of time together and had a lot in common. Even after graduating college we kept in touch until... I told them I was trans. And it's not like they hated it, they both actually said that it made a lot of sense. But we just drifted apart, they are never on instant messenger services and they rarely respond to my e-mails. It makes me sad, but I can't change what they do. I will always leave it open and welcome them back as friends if they ever get in touch with me again.

Maybe that's what you can do with this friend Desmond. No matter how it turns out I hope you are not hurt by the outcome :3