[Chi]

That may be true but I think if he has it, it's still serious.
He could pass it on just as much as you could.
Not to mention in some cases HPV can lead to cancer in both females and males.
He's at less of a 'risk' because only women give birth but he could pass it on just like you could.
Not through sperm but through touch or from semen , I don't think you can spread the virus through an egg though. The cases of a baby getting HPV from the mother are rare and I'm assuming that's because of contact.
Looking at some information on the web, some mothers have had children even HPV and their children were fine.
I guess it depends on the case really.

You really need to get your man to understand where you're coming from, be a little drastic if you have to.
If this man is worth it to you, keep trying to convey your thoughts and feelings.
He may not truly understand where your coming from and he may not be right for you.
Either way, I hope that he begins to understand how it feels and that you guys can get passed this and get a surrogate with your egg and his sperm or adoption.
That is if you really can't have children because of this.
And Fey may be right. The doctors may just be trying to cover their butts or they may be looking for your safety.
I really hope that there is something that you can do to still be able to have children of your own.
If you have to adopt it won't be so bad considering the amount of children that need homes right now.

I hope at least some of that was helpful.
And I hope that everything gets better for you.