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Something that I'm kind of curious about and you don't have to answer my question at all.
If you're sexually active with this boy, how does he know he doesn't have it? Or that he didn't give it to you?
I'm sorry if that hurt your feelings, that wasn't my intention at all and I'm sincerely sorry if that offended you.

The virus has a high percentage of being gone in 1 to 2 years. The article I'm looking at says 70% for 1 year and 90% for 2 years. I really hope that this clears up for you and that you don't get into the cancerous side of HPV. I'm really hoping for you.

As for your man saying that stuff, verbally smack him. x_x I would suggest like the other members have said here. To try and put him in your shoes. Say to him, "What if you had a disease or a virus that kept you from having children. You came to me for support and my response to you was, 'I need to have my genes in a child. I'll just get a sperm donor.' How would you feel? Would you feel hurt? Would you feel like I didn't care?" If he answers yes, tell him that's how you feel when he said that he would just get a surrogate.
I do that to my boyfriend when he hurts my feelings. I just put him in my shoes and say, "How do you like it?" xD;

Also, when your doctor calls back, maybe you'll get lucky enough to just have a few eggs frozen and the surrogate could hold both? The passing of this virus from mother to child is rare but the complications you could face are serious. I hope everything works out in your favor some way, some how. <3