[Funkduder]

Since Mr. Fizz, here, mentioned it, I might as well agree because in a way, it's true: your Dad did lose his wife. He might even get depressed in seeing you because daughters, in general, tend to be similar to their mothers. However, like everyone else said, that doesn't mean that what he said was acceptable, and I think that in a more or less diplomatic way, you should let him know you feelings about what he said.