[CupcakeDolly]

Well, I had a little bit of a talk with him (it's hard to talk seriously with him about this kind of stuff because I think it's embarrassing for him), and it turns out there was miscommunication on both ends. As far as the sex thing, he says he's tried at times, but like him and his video games, when I'm stuck in front of the computer writing or drawing I just can't be bothered with anything else and I'm oblivious to the guy hanging off me trying to get me to pay attention. ;; So we figured out that we're both pretty clueless and subtlety won't work - we have to say outright that we want it.

With the hitting thing, I had another talk with him and showed him a bruise that started forming on my back that shows an almost perfect mark of where his arms would go when he's squeezing me. When he gets too rough, I over-exaggerate saying "ow!" or whatever, and he backs off. It's funny that I have to use the same tricks for training a puppy to train my boyfriend, but meh. Whatever works.