[Quiet Man Cometh]

Grief shows itself in funny ways. I was worried once, because I felt like I cried more over my dog that died than my cousin when she passed away. That's not all that uncommon, and shouldn't be taken as a measure of judgement. Something that I learned in various circles that I've been in when it comes to dealing with things, is watch out for the word "should." It usually only makes things worse since by saying that you should be able to get over it, and you haven't, it then sounds like a personal failing. It may be best just to let it run it's course.