[Sadrain]

They are, but many misunderstand the meaning of a friend... For them, it's someone who will listen to you, give all their time to you, but you don't have to give anything back to them, and if they talk to you about their problems, they are just whining, and if they are busy, they are just jerks. And you can just disappear any time, pop up again and still call your self bff, even though maybe they have gone trough suicidal phases in the time you have been gone and they had no one to talk with. That's how many people see friends. I don't. And due to that and other things, I find it hard to find true friends.