[Gallowsraven]

Wow, not sure what i can say to all that really except hang in there.

Are you sure you had a real version of The Talk??? Not meaning to be rude or anything but guys don't always know when the conversation's turned serious, and my boyfriend often seems to ignore what i say too, though i get spoiled rotten by him to make up for it. Maybe what you need to do is sit him down, no distractions whatsoever, and make it quite clear that you are serious, that this is a problem, and that it needs sorting and he needs to listen to your views? I mean a good, long heart-to-heart where everyone's level-headed and attentive.