[Gallowsraven]

Isn't it amazing how so many of us have had similar ex's :D

But seriously hunni, as many times as it's been said, i had the same. Though i hate being pushed around so when he got nasty and sent me a drunken angry text, that i shall not repeat as it's just plain mean and i'm not sure the language is appreciated on here, i kinda marched straight up to him and told him in no uncertain terms that if he didn't quit it and let me get on with my life i'd put his phone and his attitude somewhere that not even a surgeon would be able to retrieve it from. Startled him much? :D though i still won't go near that guy who stalked me . . . seriously, no joke, all happened to me within a year! Worst. Year. Ever.

But yeah, i know how you feel; it got to the point where i was scared he was gonna hit me and i'll be the first to admit i also went along with some things he wanted just so i didn't antagonise him. Stupid me huh. But believe me, it can't last forever. Maybe it's time your boyfriend became a little more possessive of you, or that you told him to push off. If he's continuing with this and won't let it go that's not respecting your wishes.

But all's said and done, this idiot's a bully hun, and bullies don't quit until you stand up to them and tell them where to stick it, because deep down they're afraid of You. And that's what's happened here i think; he's seen you leave him and get a new guy and now he's losing control. Just whatever you do please don't give it back to him.