[CupcakeDolly]

That's a really messed up situation to be in with someone you're dating. If he's loyal to his mother even through her meddling in his private life, then I can see how it might be difficult for you. I've always been of the opinion that you should be dating the person you're dating, not their parents. Of course you would want to make as good of an impression on their parents as you can, but in the end all you can really do is be yourself, and they're going to think whatever they want of you. With her taking her disapproval to such extremes, there's really only two things you can do: ask the person you're dating to tell their parents to fuck off, or just leave the situation entirely. With him not even being 18 yet, that first option would definitely be the most taxing for both of you. Unless you think this guy is the love of your life or something, you probably did the right thing. Also, calling the police for dating her son is just her grasping at straws. You've done absolutely nothing wrong, and if she had any reason to call the cops on you, she would have actually done it and not threatened to do it.