[Sadrain]

>< You are right, absolutely right. That woman... Is so wrong, she is wrong, in all ways. Reading something like that does give a big reason to feel like being atheist is a better path. If a faith doesn't make person, more open, accepting, caring, willing to listen and help, it is so not reaching its goal... And seems like it rarely, if ever, does, more like the opposite. No, I am not bashing any religion here, right now, but I have always been against those who are blindly following it, to the point of obsession, or using it as a shield to support and protect their sick views of world. Not to mention, I am against racism. Of any kind, from any side. Because, yes, human IS human. Some might seem less than that... But that is not decided by skin color, but their inner world.

I am sorry you both had to go trough this, it must have been so hard. It must still be. And I am sorry that it has come to such a pause right now. My only advice is to wait till that other person grows up, at least becomes 18, so he legally can decide for him, is not under her control. I think he will understand that you cannot bend in front of her forever. No one deserves the bashings you have been getting, and it's only normal to want to end them, once and for all. it only shows you do have a back bone and he should be proud of you. Unless she makes some manipulations, I think he will be given a mental support of eventually standing up and walking away from what she is giving him, too.

-hugs- My best thoughts and wishes to both of you. You did the right thing.