[CupcakeDolly]

He sounds like a douche, and anyone would tell you the same. Fear is not a good reason to associate with anyone. My most recent ex was controlling and manipulative; he would make me feel like shit in a roundabout sort of way so that I thought I couldn't do any better than him. He actually flat-out said one time that he was out of my league. I honestly don't know why I gave him as many chances as I did, but it got to the point where I didn't care anymore. I was of the "I-don't-want-anyone-to-hate-me" mindset too, but the stress and anxiety was enough for me to finally be the bitch. So I just blocked him the best that I could. When he texted me or messaged me online, I just ignored him. He said some things at times that were inflammatory and obviously only said to get a response from me, but I just pushed them aside. Eventually he stopped talking to me at all because he obviously got the hint that I wanted nothing to do with him. However, if you believe that you might still feel something for him, it's understandable that it might be harder for you to ignore him. IMO, he's no good and he needs to be treated the way that he deserves for him to finally leave you alone.