Thread: Letting it out
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I'm stuck at my grandparents house right now with my boyfriend. But we're in a bit of the reverse. I work and he's home all day. My grandfather hates him, calls him a first class moocher. My grandmother wants us to stay here until I graduate from college. My boy helps around the house as best he can but it's not his house, not his family, he's uncomfortable cleaning things he doesn't know. So he does our chores and helps me and cleans up dog poop, and when asked will clean whatever they request of him. It's not enough though and now we're being kicked out in 3 weeks. XP

When people are angry with you for whatever their reason it is very hard to change their mind. The more evidence you've done good, the angrier they tend to become and take it out on you harder. I always felt with my mother, that she'd see I did do chores once i moved out and they stopped getting done - and that was the case. But I don't think that would work for you since you can't move out. I'd try talking to your husband, coming up with a formulated plan to find a cheap apartment or roommates as soon as you can. You could try asking your father for a list of what he wants done in a day so you can guarantee to him it will be done. That is the best advise I can offer you. :(

@Random: From working in an outpatient facility, I can tell you a lot of people do make it up. But the problem lies in whether or not they can fully comprehend they are making it up. There are people out there that will faint in front of you, completely unexpectedly, and fully believe they fainted. They are convinced they did. But really - they were faking. It's umm pseudo-seizures. That's not something you could ever confront somebody about though. :(




Old Posted 04-30-2011, 01:57 AM Reply With Quote