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A wedding is stressful for anyone, and it's possible that your friend may feel nervous about being in front of people, wearing a dress or anything of that sort. I can't speak for your friend since I don't know them, but in the long run, if she doesn't want to talk and refuses to be civil, then to hell with her. It IS your wedding not hers, don't let this little slip up make things harder on you dear. :3 You have too much to worry about already.

In the long run, it'd be simplest to either drop out on of the guys or see if he's ok with walking by himself.

Of course if I lived near by, I'd love to help by being in the wedding lol.

When I was planning my wedding, we didn't have months to plan. We had two weeks, because I'm impatient and I don't like working on something for a long time, just makes it less exciting to me is all. I had my bridesmaids and Maid of Honour all set up and ready to go dress hunting, and when I decided that I wanted my maid of Honour's dress to be different then the other two brides maids, it seemed really easy. Until my second Bridesmaid brought her mother with her and her mother actually convinced her to get a different dress. Long story short I was upset but didn't voice it, till my Mother got mad and called the dress company and changed the dress without the consent of my second brides maid and her mother's permission (It was cheaper though so who cares?) My friend rarely talks to me anymore, even though she seemed to understand the fact that it was my wedding not hers, and it should be the way I want it.

The point is, you get to decide what happens, not any of your friends. You do it the way you want it to be, and if your friends can't respect that, well then not to be harsh, but forget them. You can't change people.

Wish you could though lol.

Hell, if my friend wanted me to wear some poofy ugly green and pink whatever dress in their wedding, I'd freaking do it, because that's how much I care about my friends, even if I don't agree with their fashion sense lol

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Old Posted 04-22-2011, 08:27 PM Reply With Quote