Seloria
THIS. IS. SPAR -shot- ... *gurgle*
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Need to vent...
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So 2 years ago, I moved in with my bf and he proposed to me. We now own a house together, and are planning our wedding. Last year we decided to get married in August of this year. I told my 2 best friends and made one of them, that I had known longer, my maid of honour, and the other is my bridesmaid. For this story the MoH will be known as Maggie, and the bridesmaid will be known as Sara, I don't want to share their real names. So at the beginning of this year, I started planning the wedding, and had them all meet up with me and the rest of my bridal party. Throughout this meeting, Sara kept poking fun at some of my other party members, and she wanted to help plan everything. Since then, she has not come out to meet us again, even to choose the bridesmaid dresses. She told me at the very beginning she wanted me to choose something and just tell her what to wear because it was my day and she didn't want to make that decision. When I picked out a dress for her, all she did was complain about it, and her complaints didn't have any validity whatsoever anyway. Since then she has given me excuse after excuse as to why she didn't have the time to get to the shop to get it fitted, every week. The dresses take 3-4 months to come in after being ordered. Now with less than 4 months to my wedding date, she decided she doesn't want to be a bridesmaid after all. I have been under a lot of stress over some other issues lately and she chooses now of all times to tell me this. So now not only do I have that much stress on me, I'm down one bridesmaid, and now even if I replace her there is no guarantee that this other girls dress will come in in time as the wedding is less than 4 months away. When I expressed to her how upsetting this is, she took it upon herself to say some not-so-pleasant words, and then block me completely. I don't understand what her issue is, but if she had just talked to me we could have worked this out. This is driving me nuts, and possibly ruining my wedding. I feel so lost right now, and I have a million things to do still. I needed to rant and get this out because holding all of this in was just killing me. Feel free to post your opinions or discussions on this matter.
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Posted 04-20-2011, 11:10 AM
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