[Funkduder]

It seems as though you're both stressed by the situation you're in. While you try to do the best that you can, he thinks that his work is far more taxing than yours and that your not doing enough....what do you mean that someone healthier could do more? Is he pushing to do something that you can't do?:confused: Anyways, I think that if you truly believe that you're doing the best you can than his problem with how much you do is just that: his problem. He could say how little he thinks you're doing all he likes but in the end, if you can't do more than your doing, his words are only complaints about problems that both you and him should be working towards muscling through together instead of fighting each other about. Speaking of which, how long have you guys been fighting about this anyways? This couldn't have been going on since the very beginning of your marriage, has it?