[Delicious Nightmare]

The fights are started by both me and him. Some times its him some times its me. And normally starts with a snippy comment. And, yes some times we say sorry. But what bothers me is he says the same thing almost every fight. Same thing diff words. And if he says the same thing over and over then he must truly believe it right. And if he truly believes that i am not doing my best. That my daily load is not as heavy as his. Then i don't know what to do. My kids are 3 and 1 and they are very strong willed like me. Or me when i was younger.
I know he is super stressed, and tired. That's why i try to do any and every thing i can just to make him feel better. Like I will let him go hang with friends while i sit home with the kids more. I will let him sleep in on his almost days off. And When I can i cook dinner and i rub his back and I do what i can. I really do, and I know its not much. That some one on a healthy side would and could do more.
And about the" he would not marry me if i was not his one". He might think i am, but that does not make it true. We fight all the time. And its normally because I'm not good enough. Or I'm not doing good enough. And if he feel's/thinks that then how can i be his one.