[Desmond]

I haven't had experiences like that, however, my best friend has. She's a very butch dyke (don't worry she knows I call her this, in fact she laughs) who is very active and athletic as well. Over the summer she was running by a construction site and had the men start whistling at her because she was wearing a shirt that showed her chest. I call her a butch dyke for a reason. She wears mens clothes, had shorter hair then I did at this point in time, and, isn't very feminine at all.

What I would do is shrug it off, which is extremely hard to do. Specially at school. I dated someone three years younger than me for a long span of time. In the beginning I got the cradle robbing jokes said to, about, and at me for months. It got to the point where I would look at them and go "Nice one, heard it already. How about something different?" Simple because I had that attitude towards them, they stopped harassing me after a while. Or I just didn't notice because I stopped caring what they were saying. But like I said before, this is really hard to do and not everyone can. I did it because I got fed up. ^^;;