[Misericorde]

Okay. So I just need to post and rant. But if you think you have some good advice for me, feel free to post and let me know. <3

So okay. I'm a music fanatic. I -love- chilling and listening to some good tunes with my 2.5 speaker system. So that's two speakers and one woofer. A small, extraordinary lower power bass. So no biggy. I have it set to the lowest possible base setting. Fine.

But this is where the problem starts. You seem I live in a 10 apartment building. She is best BEST friend, and she lives directly above me. Meaning our rooms are one on top of the other. And yes. I listen to my music in my room. Because right now, my living room is packed with my mom's stuff and it hurts to be in there. SO moving on. I listen to music in my room. I have school from 9am to 12:30pm. She works from 8am till usually about 4:30pm. Sometimes she doesn't get home till 6pm. So, during the time I get home, and the time she does, I play my music full blast. When she gets home, I know she likes to nap, so, I'll either turn my music down really low for her to be able to nap, or turn it off all together. Usually, I do this from 4:45pm - 7pm (6:15 - 8:30pm), giving her two hours and 15 minutes to nap. When she -should be awake from her nap, I turn my music back on, but only half way up. Still not loud. And I always turn my music off at 10. The limit is actually 11pm [11am-11pm].

The problem is, though, that for the past three or four months, every time I DO play my music, she texts me and asks me to turn it down, even though I am considerately keeping it low during specific times just for her. I make sure she has quiet to sleep at night. I make sure she has quiet to nap in the afternoon. And yet she texts me, always with some excuse, "I have a migraine", "I'm sick", and most commonly, "I'm sleeping", and asks me to turn my music off, or at least down a little bit. In the beginning I was like, okay fine, no big deal. But for the past month or so, it's gotten worse, and I'm getting pissed. I don't know what to do or say to her. But today, I finally told her. I said look. I like to enjoy my music, and not to be rude Ang, I love you, but you're always asking me to turn my music down and I already keep it low for you to be comfortable. I'm getting annoyed that you keep asking me to turn it down, I mean I like to chill and listen to my music, but yeah... And then she gets all pissed at me, with a bitchy attitude. Like wtf? I already do so much for her and shit, I take her to dinner, I buy her pretty things, I do EVERYTHING with and for her. But now it's getting to be ridiculous. I seriously feel like a fucking married man! No wonder they cheat, with wives like that. Holy fuck.

Anyway, yeah, that's my rant. Feels good to get it off my chest. D<!