[Mica]

Like everyone said, Duchess is correct.

I've had my guy for over five years, LDR is definitely trying but the best advice has already been given: TALK TO HIM.

It has done WONDERS for my relationships, romantic, friendship or even just relatives. Communication is the key to any relationship you have, don't try and give subtle hints, don't try and make him guess, just tell him. It'll be easier for you who won't have to go through disappointment and for him to finally know what the hell you're talking about.

From what I've read though, the fact that you're considering it because he simply doesn't initiate conversation is kind of answer enough. Everyday people grow, and everyday you have to get to know them. Don't ever stop because they don't ever stop changing.