[Duchess]

Meeh~

I've just found that a lot of relationships die because of lack of communication and assumptions based on other person's opinion.

If you know your partner well enough, you should know what you can allow them to do.

If your partner liked to sleep around before you got together, then that's obviously going to be a flag point when you're together.

But if they never did that, why assume that they will??? Because other people did?

That's beyond stupid, and that kind of thinking will cause issues.

The only people suitable to ask other than your partner themselves, is their family, friends and exs. People who KNOW the person you're talking about. Not us. I don't know him. =/

If it turns out he doesn't initiate convo with ANYONE (like me. I don't start convos with ANYONE not family, friends, whoever), then your issue is an not a problem. He just doesn't like to start conversations. Doesn't mean he's not interested in you.

But if he starts conversations and texts OTHER people all he time... just not you. THEN you have a problem.

No use assuming things. Find out all the facts. Also... if you have to ask, you probably don't really know the person you're dating's personality =/