[Shenandoah]

One of my biggest regrets is not remembering muchof my grandfather. I have some things he made and all and some small memories... but I did get one precious memory not too long ago... and he has been dead for fifteen years. I dreamed of him and talked to him. I don't remember everything about the dream, but it was a wonderful one.

Its a shame, love, that your guy doesn't understand, but then again many males don't. Most of the 'many' just don't want to. He probably hasn't had a loss like that and women are in general more sensitive about such issues. I hope he doesn't continue to make fun of it, though, as there is a line between thoughtless and crass he shouldn't even approach.