[Mica]

@Blaine: Just because you think that people don't care about you, doesn't mean friendship is fake. I've gone down the road of being back-stabbed, hurt and used but I wouldn't call it fake. Because in the first place, the people I wasted my time on wasn't even my friend to begin with if they treated me like that. With this 'bitter' perspective, you're expecting people to hurt you. This is the last words one would generally hear from me, but have a little faith in people.

People will always have priorities, just because this person isn't on my 'first priority' doesn't mean I don't think any less of them. Explain a relationship between a lover and a friend, would you consider the lover more important? In fact, in that situation, making that kind of comparison is unfair, isn't it? (Though personally I don't have that kind of bias, I love my lover and my friends, all with a different kind of love.)

Ontopic: I'm gonna agree fully with johnny on this one. Every single word. This is my opinion though, maybe Bob didn't try to hurt you. Maybe he was just being honest. Maybe this is how he is. And maybe, you'd know it if you got to know Bob a lot better. People change every single day, they grow and learn. So don't stop getting to know Bob and don't expect the world of him.