[Sadrain]

Motive? "getting affection". And from as many individuals as they can, while still wanting to get the one and only looooove who will accept that they still gather the "affection" from all sides. And if some girl decides to not to be wanted to be "fucked over", then most of them sob how they can't live without you, until you give in, and then they get back to their old path of "getting affection" from all their dear "friends" who they're just making happy, too.

And if you talk with them, just... talk, about something, they already consider they're your boyfriend and start showing how long arms they have got.

There is probably some exceptions, but I haven't met any under age of 25, both online or in real life that would have "right" orientation.

Of course, no one will agree with me, but I don't care much about that. You asked my opinion and I gave it, no point in trying to reassure me about the opposite. Some present persons will gain only the opposite effect if they do.