[Bretagne du Nuage]

it's okay, you have every right to vent.
i think we all have some issues with our parents.
my mom is a driven and spitfire kind of woman, but she's had a history of the wrong choices with men as well.
my dad being no exception.
the way i see it she's wasted the last 20 years on him.
don't get me wrong he's not a bad father, but he is rather self serving, and by NO means a good husband.
he's a total man whore, and just, makes really asinine, juvinile choices for a man his age.
it can be very disappointing.

i hate seeing people get a break like that (an inheritance or something to that affect) and then squander it.
i had a friend who blew most of the money from her settlement with geico on getting her nose fixed, and quite frankly for the money she spent they could've done a better job.
the remainder all went to her seizure medications and a couple of MRI's. i feel like the money she spent on the surgery would've been put to better use if she'd spent it on school. especially now that her trust is running out so she can't even afford to move out of her mom's house if she still wants to take classes.

oh coos bay is a great area, i love the oregon coast in general. <3
i'm sorry it didn't work out, but your right that's life, and being stable and happy now is what really counts.