[Airu]

Ugh. x.x;; That also sounds like something I went through.

I had a friend who needed out of his house 'cause his family wouldn't let him do the things he wanted and he wanted a fresh start and all this. Well my family agreed we will let him stay with us so he can find a job and get things going for a few months. Well a month went by and he had never asked to go to a interview or to drop off applications. And he made the same excuses your friend made. About not having transportation and when we offered to take him he got quite. :/

We ended up kicking him out after a month and he went to another friends to stay. We also agreed we would pay rent each month. And when that month came up he never came to us and asked about it or offered. It was like he was waiting for my parents to baby him into what he needs to do. And still even at this other friends. He has done nothing.

I hope you can get things figured out.
Have you confronted him about if he doesn't straighten up he will get kicked out?
Maybe in a way threaten it on him?