[Duchess]

pfft.. I've never been scarred. If you scar your child... you're doing it wrong.

And I always tell those anti harm people to go try a discipline MY sister and brother...

Within a few hours they are screaming in frustration. The child literally has NO SENSE of remorse, respect or anything other than pure selfishness.

You take something... they'll just STEAL it and break something else. and.. they will LIE about it as well. Time outs? They have no respect for you, remember? They'll just walk out of the corner/room/chair. Banning them from an activity? Yeh, they'll cry for a while.... then destroy other thing until the ban is over.

Come now.. find me something better than that *rolls eyes*