[Kaderin Triste]

I ignore about 90% of his texts. Except the Thanksgiving one, it's usually trying to have lunch when he's in town grocery shopping. The most annoying is when I get off work and he's spammed me with "any free time tomorrow?" 5 or 6 times within about 30 minutes.
Like...chill out, I work technically 3 jobs and am unable to check my phone for hours at a time. Spamming me won't get a reply any sooner.

All the actual guilting, insulting, and life criticizing happens in person.
One of my favorites of those was Christmas 2017. I said I wanted my box of Christmas ornaments. Dad insisted he already gave them to me. I said no, I have the Disney ones, but not mine. He basically called me stupid because he gave them to me and I must have forgotten and/or misplaced them. I got upset at being insulted. He made fun of me for getting upset.
6 months later he texts saying he found my ornaments in one of the upstairs closets.
I still don't have them.