[Stabbsworth]

mm. i get you there. i'm white (european, if we're going to be specific).

the way i see appropriation is if you're invited to participate in something, you're good. if you're just taking it without any particular care to the original context, that's probably appropriation. or, at least, that's what i've been told.

i don't really get a say in this whatsoever because i benefit from white privilege.

i'm not sure why weight would be much of a problem tbh. afaik, muscle weighs a bit more than fat does, too.