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Originally Posted by DreadedMartian
Welp I definitely feel like some perverted weirdo. I would just like to say that sex isn't always this mindless act of rubbing bodies together. And that's really all I wanted to say. It doesn't matter and changes nothing. But by god the way you guys talk about it, I feel a bit ashamed. And with that I'm outta here. |
Please stay. There's no need to feel ashamed for
any sexual preference as long as everyone involved consents to the activity.
I agree with you, sex can be so much more than mindlessly rubbing bodies together. For example I love double entendres, dirty jokes, and the suspense of a great flirt. Other people might enjoy the sensation of a gentle touch, voices hoarse from arousal, or the smell of a loved one's hair. And even if we dismiss all this as not being part of "the actual act", there's still enough variation for many people to find pleasure.
Sometimes I wonder why the same types of discussions never arise about licorice. There are folks who almost puke at the thought, others who exclusively buy licorice sweets... and most people fall somewhere inbetween. They enjoy licorice when they have it, but don't dedicate their entire life towards one single type of candy. Yet I have never seen anyone dictate "You must want Sour Patch Kids, or else you're not normal".
In my opinion both sexual attraction and lack thereof is merely another way in which other people's preferences can vary from one's own. Yet somehow certain hateful individuals always pull that particular card from their pockets to spew intolerance. Society is weird.