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Coda · Posted 02-20-2019, 01:29 PM

16 is definitely too early to be worried about it. I don't mean that disparagingly; that's a natural time for the thought to cross people's minds. But you can rest easy, because you're still growing up, and your opinions and identity are still evolving.

Identities can be fluid over time. Maybe you'll always be ace, maybe you won't; I'm not one of those people who says ace people just haven't learned better yet. But IMO 16 is a little too early to be certain that you're ace, because you haven't even reached full physical maturity; sexuality isn't a concrete part of one's identity yet.

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16 is definitely too early to be worried about it. I don't mean that disparagingly; that's a natural time for the thought to cross people's minds. But you can rest easy, because you're still growing up, and your opinions and identity are still evolving. Identities can be fluid over time. Maybe you'll always be ace, maybe you won't; I'm not one of those people who says ace people just haven't learned better yet. But IMO 16 is a little too early to be certain that you're ace, because you haven't even reached full physical maturity; sexuality isn't a concrete part of one's identity yet. Games by Coda (updated 4/8/2025 - New game: Marianas Miner) Art by Coda (updated 8/25/2022 - beatBitten and All-Nighter Simulator) Mega Man: The Light of Will (Mega Man / Green Lantern crossover: In the lead-up to the events of Mega Man 2, Dr. Wily has discovered emotional light technology. How will his creations change how humankind thinks about artificial intelligence? Sadly abandoned. Sufficient Velocity x-post)
	Posted 02-20-2019, 01:29 PM