[Claptrap]

So I'm feeling pretty conflicted right now.

Feel free to skip this part, but to make a long story short I've met somebody and we've been talking daily since August. There's a bit of distance between us (about a 5 hour train journey, which in comparison to some people isn't really that far I know), so as a result we've only been able to actually meet up 4 times, spending 3-5 days together at a time. I think I'm in love but I'm terrible at actually voicing feelings even though I am a massive softie. I don't feel like saying it would scare them off, but at the same time I don't want to put pressure on them so they feel like they'd have to reciprocate. At the same time I'm also not really waiting for them to say it first.

Basically I just want a little perspective on the situation from people that are impartial. I also get that every relationship is different (even though this isn't even technically an "official" relationship) but I'm curious~

How soon do you think is too soon to say it? Did you say it first? What would you consider the right time to say it is?