[Tiva]

Thanks guys, it means a lot and the couch crashing at other peoples places for the past few days and asking them about it have confirmed that this isn't normal. I'm looking at moving out Mid April to May and my friend is pretty excited to test run me out as a roommate for the time being.

Coda an argument could be made for either, but all of the time she states that she supports me in moving out but then something comes up and boom 'this isn't the right opportunity for you' or 'But then I would be on my own'. So yeah, it is likely both but my therapist is making her argument based on the fact that whenever I bring up an issue it is how said issue will effect her. It isn't 'Well I didnt want to make you handle it' it is 'Well I never did that'. I do over half of the house work, and almost all of the upkeep on the handiman side of things.