[Den]

At least one of them is kind of trying to do better, so they're not as bad as they were, but the other one, I want nothing to do with them, because of things they've said and done.

an example: I asked them, when they said they wanted a familial relationship with me, to start out by writing letters to me because I like writing letters, and getting letters in the mail, and it would be a way for me to begin associating less negative memories of them, and they replied "I can't trust the USPS." when they'd sent one of our mutual relatives a birthday gift via the USPS not even a few days prior.