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I have had one myself, and have been a bridesmaid for a few, and have planned a few more then the ones I was in the bridal party for. It's not that this is they way things generally are, but it really is. Regardless of how prepared and planned you are, things will always go wrong the day before and the day of (though generally day of things aren't to drastic, just small details that you hold onto your mind forever)

The morning of my wedding my Maid of honor called to ask me why I didn't provide her a ride to the church. I had spent all of the previous night before hand making my boutineers (sp?) and my bouquet and had gotten there at 8 am to start setting up, and she called me 2 hours before the wedding upset because I didn't provide HER a ride to MY wedding? And she was asking me why I didn't buy her a dress or anything either (I told all the girls to just wear a black dress) so I told her not to fucking show.
She came late, right before the ceremony, IN CHRISTMAS SWEATER-STYLE LEGGINGS AND A PAJAMA SHIRT and sat down with the guests in the hall with her boyfriend.
Man was she one of the worst. .-.