[Rainbowfox Ari]

You want people to talk to you, okay. I'll talk to you.

I'll tell you that if you are indeed engaged, which I've gleaned from several different postings, you really need to NOT do the whole 'sleeping with other women' thing? Not to mention, leaving a girl drunk alone in a place - regardless of whether or not you "want" to be caught there - is a sleazy, dickish move, and proves you are pretty much the kind of douchebag that winds up on the six o'clock news every other day.

So if you can't leave her, then DON'T. Wait for her to wake up. Take her somewhere nice. Maybe make her breakfast, leave her a nice note, blend her a smoothie or something. Maybe clean her bathroom and wash her robe, so she has a nice shower when she wakes up?

If this is a one-night-stand, at least have the decency to make it worth her while. I may be a guy, and even -I- realize that a screw-and-run is wrong.