[McSwiggins]

Lol whoops. Read that as dependency, not codependency.
Well, yes and no. If someone needs help because of their own stupidity (ie doing something obviously stupid then getting in a pickle) I refuse to help, especially if I had warned tnem before. I'm more or less like, "Well, thats your problem, not mine. Next time you wont do that will you?" If someone needs my help and its something else, I help.

Well, about being busy, I'm raising 10 kids, doing work, going to addiction therapy, going to regular therapy, doing physical therapy, taking my son to therapy, taking my kids to various appointments, taking Janna to prenatal appointments, helping the 90 year old lady across the street with stuff like grocery shopping, doing ADLs, doing work at home and at work etc. I stay up late doing work because thats the only time I get to do it. I dont exactly have much wiggle room with time. But, I just looked on the website for my clinic and they have anger management on Saturdays at 11 am. I can do that but now I have to figure out how the hell I'm going to pay. As is I cant afford my meds and my bank account is negative almost $100.